What will you leave behind for your loved ones?
When we lose someone we love, we are left with their legacy to inspire and guide us. We begin to think about our own. How do we want to...


The two big questions about grieving
Nancy (not her real name of course) came to see me at my counseling office almost a year after her father died. It was expected, as he’d...


Missing what you never had
Grief is all around, once we have a reason to start looking for it. Usually, that reason is a loss of our own, when we seek to know that...


Strength through suffering: A beautiful surprise
Recently, I shared here two pieces of wisdom to aid grieving: a guided meditation from Belleruth Naparstek and a practical TED-X talk by...


Grieving after a loved one’s suicide: An offer of hope
After a suicide, Amy Biancolli tells us, “Grief is a monster.” Having lived through the suicide of a loved one, twice, she knows. A...


Finding an island of calm in a sea of grief
Of all that we need when we are grieving, among the most immediate and rewarding is to find calm in the turbulent waters of grief. It...


This Is Us: A grief story
I go around saying that every good story is a story about grief, without knowing if it is actually true. I’m no academic, not one to...


The Last Thing You Want to Learn
Once a year, a group of slow-moving people gathers in my driveway to accomplish a major feat – walking across the street. They have...


Let me help you navigate your journey
Conventional wisdom suggests that there is not much you can do about grief but sit back and suffer through it. Newer thinking disagrees,...

